How con artists swindle people looking for love online
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A WEWS investigation reveals how online romance scammers swindle people looking for love into giving away thousands of dollars to strangers they’ve never met. The number of so-called “sweetheart scams” has skyrocketed as more people turn to online dating websites, apps and social media to meet their soulmates as law enforcement struggle to find the resources to bring them to justice.A smooth talker About six months after Ann met someone going by the name “Bradley Hall” through an online dating website, he asked for money. For $600, he said he could return home early from Iraq, where he was serving in the U.S. Air Force, so they could start their lives together. She sent him the money. Then, she sent more. “In your heart, you feel like that’s not the right thing to do,” she said. “But you do it.” Ann eventually wired him a total of $40,000, including cash she obtained through a home equity loan. Hall never came home.“This gentleman was a real smooth talker,” she said. “I don’t know how they do it. It’s just their way of talking that they get you to give money.” Looking for love A few years earlier, friends had encouraged Ann to look for love online. “People kept pushing me,” she said. “I thought, well, maybe I’ll try.” Ann signed up for OkCupid, a popular dating website. Soon, she connected with the man who said his name was Bradley Hall.From the beginning, he made big promises. “He loved me. He wanted to make me his wife,” she said. “I know it’s nothing now.” The divorced Ohio grandmother feels so ashamed she fell for an online romance scam she declined to share her real name for this report. “I cannot understand how I did this,” she said. “I really don’t know why I was so stupid. It has put me back to being just out of high school with nothing.”Romance scams skyrocketOur team found stories like Ann’s have become increasingly common in the U.S. Since 2010, reports of online romance scams have skyrocketed, according to the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3). According to IC3 data: · Over the last three years, Americans have lost more than $1 billion· In 2018, 16,794 people were victims of confidence or romance scams between Jan. 1 and Nov. 27. · In 2016, 14,546 people reported confidence or romance scams to the FBI. In 2014, only 5,791 people filed complaints about these types of schemes.“The dating scene has really moved to the internet,” said FBI Special Agent Vicki Anderson. “We’ve really seen a big rise in these romance scams. It is the largest growing financial online fraud scheme.” Dollars lost to romance scams Infogram Romance scams Infogram Even more troubling, Anderson said the number of complaints fails to capture the scope of the problem. “It doesn’t touch it, I don’t think,” she said. She said many victims feel too ashamed and embarrassed to come forward to report the crime. Lucy’s lossLucy is not one of those victims.She notified the online dating website she used and filed federal complaints.“I just want other people to be aware of the scamming,” Lucy said. However, like Ann, Lucy is embarrassed she was swindled. WEWS agreed to change her name to interview her for this report.“I’m not one of the kind, you know that, get fooled,” she said, “But I was.” In the meantime, four years after she met the man who scammed her, she is still working to pay off credit card debt she accrued from her short-lived romance. A woman’s heart Lucy had waited a year after her divorce to start looking for love.At her friends’ recommendations, the 50-year-old single mother of two signed up for Match.com.Almost immediately, a man calling himself “William Rizzo” messaged her. He told her he was from the Akron, Ohio, area, but was currently working as a construction engineer in South Africa. He also said he was a single parent who wanted to build a new family. “It was just all different kind of nonsense to try to get into a woman’s heart,” the Ohio woman said.Just days after they connected, he claimed his wallet was stolen and he didn’t have money to feed his young son. She wavered, but still sent money. Days later, Rizzo had another emergency. Again, she sent money.Soon, she had maxed out her credit cards, sending more than $7,000, much of it wired through Western Union. When Lucy told Rizzo she was out of money, his text messages, describing her as “gorgeous,” turned from nice to nasty. “Then, I realized it was a scam,” she said. “It couldn’t be anything else.” Unlike most victims, Lucy may recoup some of her losses. She sent most of the money through Western Union and saved her receipts.In 2017, the U.S. Department of Justice sued the company for allowing scammers to use their service to transfer funds. Western Union settled for $586 million . Targets vary“There’s always some story where they need money,” said Alex Hamerstone, a professional hacker, who currently works as the governance, risk management and compliance lead for Trusted Sec, a security consulting firm. It’s scammers’ targets that vary, he said. “They target everyone,” he said. “People picture an older woman with a cat or something that’s getting scammed, but it really is not just that.” WEWS also reviewed a sample of romance scam complaints made to the Federal Trade Commission over three years. Most of the victims were under 60 years old.“Sometimes we think of younger people being more technically savvy, but they’re also much more trusting online,” Hamerstone said.Hamerstone said romance scammers also target men. “All of a sudden, they’ll get matched online with some young, beautiful woman and they’ll assume they’ve hit the jackpot and then they get strung along and they end up out of a lot of money,” he said.”I don’t want to give dating advice,” he said. “But if you’re an older guy, and you’re used to not getting a lot of attention from, you know, 30-year-old models, and all of a sudden, now 30-year-old models online are giving you a bunch of attention [it’s] probably a scam.” Stopping romance scamsWhat’s being done to stop online romance scams? WEWS reached out to popular dating websites, including Match.com, OkCupid and Plenty of Fish to ask how they protect users. None of the organizations would answer specific questions or agree to an on-camera interview. Instead, they sent us statements. You can read them in full here . Anderson said online romance scams often provide a unique challenge for law enforcement officials. “It’s not some individual sitting in a basement,” she said. “We have several schemes that are coming from various countries.“These individuals are very bright, are very manipulative. Most work in groups — it’s probably a group of individuals in a foreign country that are working together.”The FBI found many romance scammers operate from Canada, England, Ghana and Nigeria. “We don’t have the authority to just go over and arrest somebody in another country,” she said.As result, there are few cases brought to justice. In 2018, WEWS found only three cases filed in federal court, including one in the Southern District Court of Ohio.Prosecutors alleged eight people laundered money from romance scams on popular dating websites, including Christian Mingle, BabyBoomerPeopleMeet.com, PlentyofFish.com, OurTime.com, eharmony and Facebook.Despite the challenges, Anderson said online romance scams are a “huge priority.” “It’s not something that was a big concern 10 years ago,” she said. “But in the last three to four years, it has grown. I think that with these staggering statistics that it will continue to be something that we look at.” Conversing with a con artist “Why can’t they be caught?” Ann said. “I don’t think anybody is doing anything about stopping this.” After all, she can provide the phone number Hall currently uses to investigators.She knows it works because she still communicates with the man who conned her out of $40,000. The day before WEWS interviewed her, he sent several messages begging for more money, including, “Baby, we can’t continue to live this way. I’ve got to be home so that I will be able to treat you like my queen,” and, “It’s the right thing to do baby please bring me home.”

WEWS texted the Chicago-area number, but the conversation with Hall didn’t last long.First, he typed. “Who are you to her?” Then, he wrote he loved Ann “with all his heart,” but when WEWS reporter Sarah Buduson identified herself, he quickly responded by typing “F*&% off.”

“This obviously is a scam,” Anderson said. “His response is very inappropriate, but it tells you everything about him.” The words he says So why does Ann still communicates with Hall?“I guess it’s the still the words he says,” she said. “Even though I don’t believe a word of them, it’s still good to hear. “You know when you’re all alone, and you don’t do much of anything, just hearing that once in a while makes you feel better,” she said. “Even though it’s meaningless, you know it’s meaningless.” In the meantime, she’s gone back to work to supplement her social security and earn back some of the $40,000 he took from her. “I feel I failed everything,” she said. “It’s just awful to think that I saved, I don’t know how many years, for that money, and it’s gone,” she said.How to avoid “Sweetheart Swindlers”: 1. Don’t send money to someone you have only met online. Just don’t. 2. Do a background check. Use Google. Search for their photo on other websites. Go the County Clerk of Court’s website where they live to look for civil and criminal charges. 3. Do talk to trusted friends. Get their opinions on your new admirer. 4. Do take it slow. Be skeptical of someone who immediately professes love for you. 5. Do be skeptical. If your new love interest won’t talk on the phone, video chat, or meet you in person, those are serious red flags they may be a “sweetheart swindler.”